There are those who insist it does, yet several researchers insist
there is no evidence that it's even real. Nevertheless, g-spot
amplification surgery is available for women who want to enhance sexual
pleasure, lending credibility to its existence.
there is a popular held belief that massaging the g-spot can be
accomplished once you know where to look.
What is been popularly but erroneously called the G Spot is the area on
the upper wall of the vagina through which the urethral or Skenes
glands (prostate) can be felt. The search for a spot on the upper wall
of the vagina, as opposed to searching for the prostate or urethral
glands through the upper wall may be contributing to the difficulty of
finding a single G spot and the controversy as to whether it exists at
Originally, it was thought that women only had
clitoral orgasms. Now we are finding that one can experience an orgasm
in just about any area of the body. The G-area orgasm is best described
as a vaginal orgasm, which means it is generated and experienced mostly
within the vaginal area. However, with practice and patience, the
orgasms generated from this area can expand to include the whole body.
Lovers playing with the G-area regularly have also expanded the woman's
orgiastic response from the average of 10-15 seconds to minutes and
2. I am not kidding, but these are the facts!
The important things to know about the G-spot are:
Every woman has a G-spot.
Massaging the G-spot is the key to multiple orgasms and also
female ejaculation, which are said to be extremely pleasurable by a
woman who has it.
Every woman has the capability to reach G-spot orgasm. All you need is the desire and the right technique.
3. If it really exists, then where should you point to?
G spot. Here you'll learn what it is, where it is, and what to do with
it. The technique takes only minutes to learn but you may need a few
tries for it to work. The G spot is a zone about two or three inches
inside the vagina on the front wall, closest to the clitoris or pubic
bone. With the right technique and a bit of practice it can yield lots
and lots of pleasure for women including orgasm, multiple orgasms and
female ejaculation. In the diagram below, it shows you where exactly G
important to focus on your partner's entire body, before focusing on
the g-spot. It's also important to know that not all women seem to
respond to g-spot stimulation, making it essential to pay attention to
individual preferences for sexual pleasure.
The G-spot is named after a German doctor, Ernst Gräfenberg,
who wrote the book "The G-spot" in 1982. The G-spot is thought to be a
trigger for vaginal orgasm, and is described as being located behind
the pubic bone. Some urologists believe the g-spot may be an extension
of female clitoral anatomy, extending back into the vaginal canal.
To get to her G-spot you may need to get out of the
missionary position and penetrate from back to front, or "doggy style."
Otherwise, use your fingers or thumb. The goal is to make contact two
to three inches inside her, stimulating the anterior or front of the
vagina close to the public bone. You can also use a sex toy specially
designed for G-spot stimulation. The more foreplay, the more responsive
she will be, as blood flow increases to the area with arousal. If you
do use the missionary position, place a pillow under your partner's
hips and have her draw her knees to her chest.
Make sure you're prepared, with lots of foreplay. Use your
favorite lubricant to make things more comfortable. If you use your
fingers or thumb, make certain you don't cause any injury, and gently
press forward as you firmly stroke the area and massage. Well manicured
nails are important. The actions is often described as moving your
fingers as if asking someone to "come here."
The g-spot might be felt as a one inch ridged area, that
becomes more swollen with increased stimulation. Use a very firm
pressure to as you move your fingers, thumb or penis back and forth
over her g-spot. Encourage your partner to relax. It's natural for a
woman to clench her muscles prior to orgasm, but during g-spot
stimulation, it's important for her to relax her pelvic muscles. Some
women describe the urge to urinate. Tell her to let go of the urge, as
it's merely the sensation produced by the urethra from stimulation.
There should be no real worry about accidental urination.
4.Here are the preparations for the whole session. Please bear this in your mind.
Trim your nails short. Watch out for long or sharp nails. They can
cause small cuts or tears in the delicate skin in and around the
Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay. Foreplay builds sexual arousal
and fills the sex organs with blood, making them more responsive. The
more you foreplay, the more pleasure you'll get when you have sex.
Without foreplay, touching your G-spot may be uncomfortable or even
painful. Orgasm is much more likely after lots of foreplay
The woman kneels on all fours in the doggy position And pushes her hips
back. This position really helps with G-spot massage. Pushing your hips
back increases pressure in your pelvis. Your legs, hips and bum tighten
up and gently squash your vagina and the surrounding area. And most
importantly, this position pushes the G-spot slightly further out into
the vagina, making it easier to find and stimulate.
The man inserts his thumb into her vagina and presses down
onto her G-spot. He should be able to feel her G-spot as a bumpy,
ridged area about one inch in diameter. When a woman is aroused, her
G-spot gets larger and protrudes into the vaginal canal.
The man massages her G-spot back and forth, with firm
pressure. He then rubs the pad of his thumb back and forth on her
G-spot. The pressure has to firm. Only a deep, firm massaging will
work. Unlike the clitoris, the G-spot doesn't respond to light
The woman should relax her PC muscle and keep it relaxed.The
PC muscle in women is very similar to that in men. It connects the tail
bone to the pubic bone, it can clench, release and push, and it can be
used to prevent the passing of urine. You can feel it in action by
placing a finger just inside your vagina and squeezing. It's shown as a
thick black band in the diagram below: When a woman's G-spot is being
stroked, she may feel like tensing her PC muscle. Don't do this - she
should keep it relaxed. Along with firm pressure on the G-spot, this is
one of the keys to G-spot orgasm. Relaxing the PC muscle is also the
key to female ejaculation.
For a clitoral orgasm, women usually tense their PC muscle. For a
G-spot orgasm it's the opposite.
5.The sensations of 'pee feeling' should be put away
is the final piece of the G-spot orgasm puzzle, and also unlocks female
ejaculation. As pleasure builds during G-spot massage, a woman will
feel the sensation of needing to pee. The key to both G-spot orgasm and
female ejaculation is to just let this feeling go. What's happening is
the build up to female ejaculation or squirting. This is a clear
odourless liquid that squirts out of the urethra during G-spot massage.
The liquid comes from glands that surround the urethra known as Skene's
glands. These glands become engorged during and block the flow of urine
from your bladder.
G spot orgasm. With practice and some luck, G
spot massage will produce an orgasm. The man can feel the orgasm
happening by feeling the orgasmic contractions around his finger or
thumb. This will be a light, rhythmical squeezing and releasing of the
vagina, lasting about 5 to 10 seconds.
Multiple G spot Orgasm. If you keep going after the first
orgasm, its possible to reach a second, third or more. In some cases,
clitoral stimulation can produce multiple orgasms, but the most common
way is G spot massage. If you reach the first orgasm from G spot
massage, have a rest for about 20 seconds, but then you can begin
massaging the G-spot again, as long as the woman feels comfortable.
Many women find stimulation just after orgasm uncomfortable.
If you keep going like this you may reach two, three or more orgasms.
Leave the 20 second pause after each one, but only after the orgasmic
contractions are over - don't stop during the orgasm! Again remember to
use firm pressure on the G spot - light rubbing won't do anything.
6. Don?t forget these guys! Listed below are the things you shouldn?t do:
Don't stop until she's finished. You should be able to feel rhythmic contractions as she achieves orgasm.
Don't be discouraged if you're not successful. Remember, that
every woman is different. She may find it uncomfortable, or she may beg
for more. Take you cues from your partner - she'll tell you what feels
good and what does not.
Remember to always practice safe and healthy sex.
7. Things to ponder
Therefore, whether you are with a woman
who has never experienced this type of stimulation, or with someone who
has, it is important to remember that if you choose to stimulate this
area, you never know what type of response you may experience. She may
jump into sexual ecstasy, she may feel nothing, or it might even be
uncomfortable, even painful for her. Persistence on the part of both
lovers will pay off in earthshaking dividends and profoundly, deeper
intimacy, that we all crave, if they understand how to approach and
surf the experience, whatever the response.
Now, in approaching the G-area, it is important to
be aware of the special nature of this area. It has been realized in
our bodies, that our cellular/muscular/organ structure also holds
memory of past traumas, if they have not been properly and completely
released. Have you ever heard of sexual healing? The G-area provides
one of the most efficient and easiest ways to get there! The G-area is
notably a place where a lot of emotions may be stored. Just as regular
prostate massage is recommended for men to avoid prostate problems, it
is actually a good idea for a woman's sexual and emotional health to
make time for special, health massage/healing G-area sessions on an
ongoing basis, outside of the lovemaking arena. Then she can feel total
permission to explore and release any tensions and traumas she may be
holding there. When stimulating the G-area during regular lovemaking,
it is advisable to be prepared to switch to healing mode, if she moves
into deep emotion.
is also wise to integrate many of these techniques into your everyday
play, as appropriate, such as asking permission, watching to make sure
that there is always plenty of lubrication, staying focused and
attentive to your lover, and taking the time to "wake her up" before
you plunge into more intense stimulation. With newbies, sometimes the
beginning takes a little time and perseverance, but with patience, the
rewards are gaining greater emotional and physical health, greater intimacy, and bigger and better orgasms! I wish you joyous adventures discovering the paradise on earth!